Feelings & friendships • Classes 4–5
Kindness can include saying no
A friendly invitation leaves room for a choice.
Take your time. Speak, draw or write your answers.
Here is what is happening.
People may want different activities, space or levels of participation. Saying no politely is allowed, and hearing no does not make the invitation a failure. In a fictional group game, ask what someone is comfortable with and offer alternatives without pressure. A trusted adult can help when a situation feels unsafe.
Pause. Make the idea your own.
Explain one idea to a partner, draw it or write it in your own words. Which part is an observation, an example or a question?
You can use a home language. No need to share personal experiences or finish everything in one sitting.Your little investigation
What you need
Paper and a pencil, or a partner to talk with. Drawing and speaking are welcome.
Imagine a friend does not want to join a noisy game.
Write a respectful reply that accepts the choice.
Offer a quieter option without demanding an explanation.
What is a respectful response to “No, thank you”?
KEEP ASKING
All activities in your group
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